👀 I think I
have a special talent to be proud of
and that is the ability to make my wife
smile whenever I want her to. Sometimes she tries to resist, but most of the time
she lets it fly and a big, beautiful grin
just creeps across her pretty face. I believe all of us have that talent if we choose to use it, we can make those we love smile at the
drop of a hat. For sure, it takes a good
effort to make it happen, but what could be
more important? I discovered many years ago that if those around me were happy, then it only stood to reason it would be passed on to me. We mostly chase
that elusive thing called “Happiness”
by taking trips, watching movies, and
going to amusement parks. I have found that happiness lives within my home, in my neighbor’s home, in talking with
my daughter and grandchildren on the phone, and in taking my wife out to
dinner. Happiness lurks everywhere, waiting for the opportunity to sneak up
behind us and take over our body without making a sound. Happiness doesn’t
understand why we look for it in other places when it is hiding
in plain sight for us to find. My wife and I were driving down the road
the other day, and I leaned over and told her, “When we get to the next red
light, I will not move when it turns
green until you give me a kiss.” The biggest smile spread across her face, and
I got my kiss. I also got the
satisfaction of knowing I had made her day a little more pleasant. I
smile a
lot, and I have the lines in my face to
prove it. Getting old had something to do with it also, but I
prefer to think it’s mostly because I smile a
lot 😊. I believe that if
you let one single day go by and you
didn’t smile, or brought a smile to someone else, you have wasted a
very good day. “We do not completely
love those at whom we cannot smile.”…Andre’ Maurois
👀 In 1880, the
USA population was 50 million. Today it is 328 million (world population 7.5 billion).
This certainly explains why shopping centers, restaurants, gas stations,
and grocery stores are popping up all over the place. It seems we are determined to put something on every available piece of land
within a 20 square mile radius of where I live. It’s projected that by 2050 there will be 438 million USA citizens. About 60% of
us live east of the Mississippi River (approx. 200 million). Looks sorta
like it’s
going to get mighty crowded here on the east
coast. True, our largest state is California with 39 million people, then Texas
with 28 million, but after that the
other states west of the Mississippi do not have very large populations. If I’m an optimist, that gives me many opportunities to create new
friendships, but if I’m a pessimist, then it only means that I have to share everything I now enjoy. I think
it’s kinda hard to be an optimist when you’re
sitting on the freeway in a two-mile line of cars, waiting to get thru one of
the many tunnels we have in our area. So how do we keep a positive outlook when faced
with all the negatives that life throws
our way? Firstly, I think negative
thinking adds to an already deteriorating
situation. Reminds me of an old saying, “If you find yourself
in a hole, quit digging.” So, me worrying about
all
the new structures being built in our area creates
stress, and we all know that stress
is not good for us. Secondly, the new
structures could actually improve our life by offering goods and services only
available many miles away. Of course, the third
option is to sell our home and move to a less congested area. We had better
make that a good distance away because
of the expected population increase. I read an article several months ago about a
scientist that has calculated that
our Sun will burn itself out in a gazillion years. Now that’s something I REALLY
need to worry about! Albert
Schweitzer said, “To the question as to whether I am a pessimist or an optimist, I answer that my knowledge is pessimistic, but my willing and
hoping are optimistic.” Hmm, that pretty
much describes how I feel.
👀 This past holiday season was quiet for my
wife and I. Some of the family had departed for warmer climes (California & Hawaii), and a lot of the
people we love live in other states, too far away to make a quick visit. My
son’s passing this past summer really put
a damper on our enthusiasm, but we struggle
on, hoping and praying that the hurt
will diminish and that we can move on. There are
so many people in our lives that love
us and keep in constant touch, visiting and calling often. I was driving home
from church a few Sundays ago and I noticed a father playing basketball with his two sons in the driveway. My
thoughts floated back to when my two children were that age (10-12) and the things we did together. I think
we travel through life thinking that things are permanent, the way they are now is the way
they will always be. But as you age, you realize that everything is temporary, that nothing lasts forever. What does that realization gain you? It makes you more aware of
those around you. It encourages you to live in the moment and appreciate the effort of others to make your life
a little more enjoyable. I have a picture of myself (age 6) that sits on my desk, and I often wish I could go back in time and tell that smiling young face some things to do and be
aware of as he travels through life. Armed
with that knowledge, he would have
become a better friend, son, husband, father, grandfather, and
great-grandfather. No doubt, all of us would make different choices, be kinder and more
considerate, if we could, somehow, acquire
the knowledge of old age while we were young.
The bottom line is, we can look back
with regret, or forward with enthusiasm. I’m thinking that “forward” thing is better 😊.
👀 My grandson
(David) sent me a message the other day, and it pertained to my great-grandson (Lane-4 years old).
Lane was enrolled in a Prekindergarten
class out in Tennessee (15 hours away from me) and there was an application
named Dojo that I could install on my PC (phone also) and
login to the school’s website with a password. The teachers can tell who is watching
from afar and can welcome those viewers into
her classroom. So, almost every day now, I log into his class and watch
my great-grandson as he learns new stuff, and
what a joy it is to observe.
Fortunately, I can remember my first day at
school in the 1st Grade. My teacher’s name was Mrs. Angel, and she definitely
was not one of God’s angels. Whenever one of
us (grades 1– 3) did anything to
annoy her, we were sent outside to cut
a switch, and it had better be a good one, and she used that switch all day. If my parents discovered about the
school whipping, then we got another by them. I do remember learning new things in school and realizing
there was so much I didn’t know! I figured if I kept learning new things, eventually I
would know why there were so many stars in the sky, what made the sun come
up each morning, and the moon creep into the sky at night. My expectations were
huge, and as I watched Lane, I wondered
if he had the same thoughts as I had when I was his age. His teachers use a lot of
technology to help him learn, and I’m confident he is well on his way to finding out all the secrets of our universe
just like his great-grandpa did 😊. Findley Dunne said, “It doesn’t make much
difference what you study if you don’t like it.” Now, that’s a lollipop I can lick on!
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January 17, 2019
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👀 I think I have a special talent to be proud of and that is the ability to make my wife smile whenever I want her to. Sometimes she tries to resist, but most of the time she lets it fly and a big, beautiful grin just creeps across her pretty face. I believe all of us have that talent if we choose to use it, we can make those we love smile at the drop of a hat. For sure, it takes a good effort to make it happen, but what could be more important? I discovered many years ago that if those around me were happy, then it only stood to reason it would be passed on to me. We mostly chase that elusive thing called “Happiness” by taking trips, watching movies, and going to amusement parks. I have found that happiness lives within my home, in my neighbor’s home, in talking with my daughter and grandchildren on the phone, and in taking my wife out to dinner. Happiness lurks everywhere, waiting for the opportunity to sneak up behind us and take over our body without making a sound. Happiness doesn’t understand why we look for it in other places when it is hiding in plain sight for us to find. My wife and I were driving down the road the other day, and I leaned over and told her, “When we get to the next red light, I will not move when it turns green until you give me a kiss.” The biggest smile spread across her face, and I got my kiss. I also got the satisfaction of knowing I had made her day a little more pleasant. I smile a lot, and I have the lines in my face to prove it. Getting old had something to do with it also, but I prefer to think it’s mostly because I smile a lot 😊. I believe that if you let one single day go by and you didn’t smile, or brought a smile to someone else, you have wasted a very good day. “We do not completely love those at whom we cannot smile.”…Andre’ Maurois
👀 In 1880, the USA population was 50 million. Today it is 328 million (world population 7.5 billion). This certainly explains why shopping centers, restaurants, gas stations, and grocery stores are popping up all over the place. It seems we are determined to put something on every available piece of land within a 20 square mile radius of where I live. It’s projected that by 2050 there will be 438 million USA citizens. About 60% of us live east of the Mississippi River (approx. 200 million). Looks sorta like it’s going to get mighty crowded here on the east coast. True, our largest state is California with 39 million people, then Texas with 28 million, but after that the other states west of the Mississippi do not have very large populations. If I’m an optimist, that gives me many opportunities to create new friendships, but if I’m a pessimist, then it only means that I have to share everything I now enjoy. I think it’s kinda hard to be an optimist when you’re sitting on the freeway in a two-mile line of cars, waiting to get thru one of the many tunnels we have in our area. So how do we keep a positive outlook when faced with all the negatives that life throws our way? Firstly, I think negative thinking adds to an already deteriorating situation. Reminds me of an old saying, “If you find yourself in a hole, quit digging.” So, me worrying about all the new structures being built in our area creates stress, and we all know that stress is not good for us. Secondly, the new structures could actually improve our life by offering goods and services only available many miles away. Of course, the third option is to sell our home and move to a less congested area. We had better make that a good distance away because of the expected population increase. I read an article several months ago about a scientist that has calculated that our Sun will burn itself out in a gazillion years. Now that’s something I REALLY need to worry about! Albert Schweitzer said, “To the question as to whether I am a pessimist or an optimist, I answer that my knowledge is pessimistic, but my willing and hoping are optimistic.” Hmm, that pretty much describes how I feel.
👀 This past holiday season was quiet for my wife and I. Some of the family had departed for warmer climes (California & Hawaii), and a lot of the people we love live in other states, too far away to make a quick visit. My son’s passing this past summer really put a damper on our enthusiasm, but we struggle on, hoping and praying that the hurt will diminish and that we can move on. There are so many people in our lives that love us and keep in constant touch, visiting and calling often. I was driving home from church a few Sundays ago and I noticed a father playing basketball with his two sons in the driveway. My thoughts floated back to when my two children were that age (10-12) and the things we did together. I think we travel through life thinking that things are permanent, the way they are now is the way they will always be. But as you age, you realize that everything is temporary, that nothing lasts forever. What does that realization gain you? It makes you more aware of those around you. It encourages you to live in the moment and appreciate the effort of others to make your life a little more enjoyable. I have a picture of myself (age 6) that sits on my desk, and I often wish I could go back in time and tell that smiling young face some things to do and be aware of as he travels through life. Armed with that knowledge, he would have become a better friend, son, husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. No doubt, all of us would make different choices, be kinder and more considerate, if we could, somehow, acquire the knowledge of old age while we were young. The bottom line is, we can look back with regret, or forward with enthusiasm. I’m thinking that “forward” thing is better 😊.
👀 My grandson (David) sent me a message the other day, and it pertained to my great-grandson (Lane-4 years old). Lane was enrolled in a Prekindergarten class out in Tennessee (15 hours away from me) and there was an application named Dojo that I could install on my PC (phone also) and login to the school’s website with a password. The teachers can tell who is watching from afar and can welcome those viewers into her classroom. So, almost every day now, I log into his class and watch my great-grandson as he learns new stuff, and what a joy it is to observe. Fortunately, I can remember my first day at school in the 1st Grade. My teacher’s name was Mrs. Angel, and she definitely was not one of God’s angels. Whenever one of us (grades 1– 3) did anything to annoy her, we were sent outside to cut a switch, and it had better be a good one, and she used that switch all day. If my parents discovered about the school whipping, then we got another by them. I do remember learning new things in school and realizing there was so much I didn’t know! I figured if I kept learning new things, eventually I would know why there were so many stars in the sky, what made the sun come up each morning, and the moon creep into the sky at night. My expectations were huge, and as I watched Lane, I wondered if he had the same thoughts as I had when I was his age. His teachers use a lot of technology to help him learn, and I’m confident he is well on his way to finding out all the secrets of our universe just like his great-grandpa did 😊. Findley Dunne said, “It doesn’t make much difference what you study if you don’t like it.” Now, that’s a lollipop I can lick on!
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